I want every trans men, trans woman to listen to yourself. You think your a woman? Great! Be that woman. You think your a man? Great! Be that man. Don't change for others who say you can't be who you want to be or who you are because you are that person you want to be already, you say your a woman that's fine because you are you never were something else before, you were always that woman. Same if your a man, it still applies. Don't change yourself for others because you are you; no one should change be in the crowd you want to stand in not out of.